Wanna learn how to turn your ex on through
text messaging? Stay tuned because in just a moment, I am
going to teach you just that! Hi, my name’s Brad Browning, AKA “The
Breakup Geek” … and I’ve been studying the psychology of breakups and relationships
for over 10 years now. I’ve released multiple books, been featured
on countless online relationship advice columns, and have I have a YouTube channel with almost
12 million views. If you’re interested in receiving more of
breakup and dating advice, simply subscribe to my YouTube channel to receive regular updates. Okay…so how can you turn on your ex through
text messages? Well, I hate to break it to you, but isn’t
as simple as just sending a bunch of text messages and hoping for the best. If you haven’t properly primed your ex – that
is, if you haven’t been using some of the tactics that I outline in my Ex Factor Guide
program, then these text messages won’t be as effective as they could be. Using these text messages right after the
breakup wouldn’t be a wise idea. And if your ex is still mad at you or if they
don’t want to talk to you, then these texts will probably be make matters worse. So what you have to do is make sure that your
is at “emotional neutral” first before sending them these text messages… but what
do I mean by “emotional neutral?” In order to make your ex emotionally neutral,
you need to make sure your ex isn’t experiencing any of the negative emotions that are common
after the breakup. There are a few sneaky ways to do this…and
No Contact is one of the best ways to do this. But the sake of brevity, I’m going to assume
that you already know all of that… and I’m also going to assume that you’ve properly
primed your ex to the point that he or she is open to at least chatting with you. So without anymore BS, let’s jump right
into it… Text 1 – Which I Call The Intimate Memory
Text. This is a powerful text that you can send
to your ex that will force him or her to think about a romantic moment you two shared in
the past. To better explain this, let me jump right
into an example… You could say something like… “Do you remember that room we stayed in
at the Fairmont Pacific? They had the most incredible bath robes…
and the bed there was the softest thing ever. Take me back…” Now, the goal here isn’t to get too sexual…
you simply want your ex to start thinking about the romantic moment you shared together
and let his or her imagination do the rest. If your ex seems receptive to your message,
you can delve a little bit deeper and get a little bit more explicit. But again, if you force it, you’re going
to blow it and your ex will probably just get creeped out. So remember that the key here is subtly… Text 2 – The Clothing Text. This works really well if you’re female…
but it can work well if you’re a guy too. The key to this text is to get your ex to
think about their favourite article of clothing that you wore. It could be a fancy, little dress that you
wore out on dinner dates or even a comfy sweatshirt that your ex like to steal from you… but
to better explain this text, let me just jump right into another example. You could say something like… “I’m wearing that little blue dress you
always liked, by the way! Hope you’re doing well.” Or you could say something like… “Remember that sweatshirt you always used
to steal from me? I’m wearing it right now! And it’s ALL MINE!” Of course, you can customize this to fit your
breakup or your relationship. And this is a great text to send if you want
to be really subtle about getting your ex to think about you intimately. Now if things between you two are going really
well and your ex is being receptive to the above two texts, you can turn it up a notch
by sending him or her this next example… Text 3 – The Winky Text. Again, this one is a little bit more “forward”
so make sure things are going well between you and your ex. This one can do wonders for you when said
in the right situations. You could say something like… “You know what I miss most about our relationship?
;)” — and you can send a little winky emoticon after it. Alternatively, you could say something like… “I miss you in that way. ;)” — again, the winky face is key! I know, it sounds really, REALLY cheesy when
I say it here, but trust me, when you do say it in the right case, you’ll be able to
turn your ex on in no time. And this is just a handful of the texts that
are proven to turn your ex on… if you want more information on EXACTLY how you can turn
your ex on (and get him or her into your bed NOW), then head over to BreakupBrad.com and
watch the free video presentation on my website. Text 4 – The Picture Text. No, get your head out of the gutter, I don’t
mean you should send your ex a nudie or a dick pic, but look through your photos album
and try and send your ex a picture of a place where you shared an intimate moment. It could be the view from your hotel room
in Hawaii, the cabin you shared at the lake, or even a romantic dinner you shared at a
fancy restaurant. Send them the picture and say something like… “Remember this place? I only have amazing memories here.” Similar to the first text, the key here is
to make it SUBTLE. If you’re being overtly sexual at the wrong
time, you could blow it and your ex will go running for the hills. So that just about does it for this video. If you’re wondering WHEN to send these text
messages, then take my free quiz tool at BreakupBrad.com/quiz. On that page, you can take a quick 5 minute
quiz that will determine how interested your ex is in you. Again, that URL is www.BreakupBrad.com/quiz. Thanks for the likes and subscribes as always
and I’ll chat with you soon!
To anyone who is dealing with a breakup and is a little reluctant to the services Brad has to offer, do not hesitate. Back in August my ex of 4 years broke up with me out of nowhere. I came across Brad's work and decided to give it a shot and it completely changed my life. For 5 months Brad and I emailed back and forth regarding my relationship issues. He was very thorough and helped me make logical decisions pertaining to my situation rather than emotional decisions. Though initially I hired him wanting my ex back, it turned more into becoming a better version of me (in my personal and professional life) and I can't put a price on the things I learned which wouldn't of been possible without Brad. I did not end up reuniting with my ex but it was best because of timing and toxic situations. Again, Brad's coaching changed my life and if you are on the ropes of hiring him for his services I would most definitely do so. Worth every penny. Thanks for everything Brad!
Hi Brad,
What should I do if my ex tries to contact me or text me within those 30 days of no contact? Should I ignore him?
B R A D P L E A S E A N S W E R A S S O O N A S P O S S I B L E
So we broke up at the end of october and till december we were talking and in the end i made the mistake to ask her to be together again and i was all needy and stuff. Then it took us a month and a half to talk again and i was upbeat and stuff because i planned to do almost the same thing as what you are teaching us here (but i didn't really know how) but right now i am at the reattraction phase (which i kinda accomplished but after a week or 2 this faded away) and the point is that i want to use the text that says that the breakup was for the best. So my grades were shit and i didn't go out much. But now i was working on my apperiance and i start to go out more and study more. And today i got eventually a good grade and i think i have the ground to write this text and adapt it in my own situation. Also i'm planning to make her see that other girls want me but i didn't make it work before and this text can be a chance to leave her with the assumption that i'm worth being in a relationship e.t.c
The question is, is this ground enough or i need more stuff to do to text her that. We don't talk about our breakup and i'm not planning to start an arguement with her of course. Also i will change the subject after I see how she responds to that
Edit: So she responded with a whole essay about how glad she was that i'm getting better in my life in general and she even mentioned that she hoped that the whole situation between us helps me with other girls (which i don't know wether it's good or bad since i never mentioned anything about girls but on the other hand she wants me to have other girls…but yet again she might fake it??). Also she mentioned that she was scared that she had a huge negative effect on me (since i handled the situation in an awful way)
My breakup was serious. We haven't spoke in about 4 months
And I'd like to keep it that way.
how to txt her she block me.already😢
Great video! But I got a question. How do we make our ex talk to us. Because it’s been 6 years since we talk.
Hi brad
We are in a deep relation but immidiatly one she was saying that I am so possessive and she cant adjust with me, sir honestly I am saying that I cant line without her #sir is suicide is the best solution
What if it’s 5 years??
Brad
I need your help,I want my ex back. There is a little twist we live together we aren't in the same room we are more loke roommate. But I want back in my room. help!!!
I like u ……I think I should stop thinking abt my ex😘😘
But what if he pretends dat he doesn't remember
Brad… I typed in the message as you said 'Sorry, I have been emotional the last few days……….. Wish you good luck' and got a response saying ' What are you trying to say…. I can't understand'…. Can you help me what do I reply back for this
Aftr breakup he s already in a love relation and i still love him wat shud i do brad plsss help
I was in a long term non committal relationship. We broke up a while ago but he initiated communication again when I had a death in the family. We were in limbo phase hot and cold phase. Talked alot on the phone, spent time together, and then he went cold again. After 3 days he text out of the blue saying he had a great time with me 3 days earlier. I said I had fun too but I prefer to deal with people not so flaky and I will see you at work. He said flaky how thoughtless you know what I'm going through and you have a lot going on too. I said I agree we do have a lot going, which is fine. So I'm going to fall back. I don't want to get closer to someone who is unsure if they want to be around. Again 3 days later he responds I know we aren't cool but this was really funny. He sent a picture from IG. What now!
Brad she moved on She asked me if I wanted to meet her new boyfriend??? Then she asked me if I'm gonna still help pay for the divorce!
Before 2 months i slapped her… now she said I hate u
Hi Brad, I want know what you think this means. Well my ex and I dated 8 years ago and now we are talking again. One day he text and said “ if something happens to me, I love you” ? What does that mean? Does he love me?
Don't text them
Mr. Brand if an LDR will break up it would be possible to return my ex back? What should i do i want her to return back..
brad i am in a long distance relationship with my girlfriend , she is from ukraine and i am from india , last time she brokup with me and i applied no contact rule and she just texted me on the third day ,and everything went well , the same happened 4 days ago , should i go again for the no contact rule on her , {this time its my fault } will it work?
I never met himt i met in video chat what can i do he live anthor city
You have a good rest of your week now doing all these things you do
Very nice
My ex boyfriend tell me to forget him but still call me an texting me when he was drunk …what to do😭 i still love him
Help me!!!! Help me please!!!!My thing is, it was like a half “fuck u were done!” And half “I’m really homesick and have been thinking about maybe moving back home” (her ol hometown is a 2 and half hour drive) our relationship has also been pretty rocky the past few weeks, she went back home to her hometown cuz her sister was in trouble. And we got in a fight because she stayed the night at her ex’s house (idk if she slept in the same bed, or if she slept in the living room with the kids) so we got in a fight, she came back home that weekend to grab her sons medicine and needed to head back to her hometown for the weekend, but…. she came home and started packing up her apartment and moved back. We’d been together 2yrs I was about to ask her to marry me, her kids started calling me dad. She’s gone now 2 and a half hours away and I’ve been a broken mess. Help me help me!!! Please!!!
Bro. How come u have more views than subscribers?. Your freaking awesome. You need more subs man.
If u gat a good connection with him trust me this gona work👌
Hi. Brad my gf said she need a space and after few she will come back to me.but i seen her with someother guy and he having feelings for her and i might think my also having the same. I asked her u said u need a space but what u doing with this guy are u cheating on me she said no and said he is only a best friend..but one day i seen my gf phone and dat guy wrote her dat he loves her and want to be with her…..i followed ur tricks but evry 2 days she breaking no contact by calling me or texting me….let me tell we havent broke up yet and still she saying i marry u but i m confused whether my gf is cheating on me or not.
So around 7 years ago I had a girl that was crazy over me and I really cared about her but was scared to be vulnerable so I didn’t let me feeling she known, she moved on and was in a relationship for 5 years. After I got outta my most recent relationship I realized that she’s the one I want. I messaged her and she keeps leaving me on read. She’s the best thing to ever happen to me. Is there any chance of me getting her back?
The last time I talked to my gf she said I don't love u anymore . For some of her personal home problems . Than after few days ago she tried to contact me but my phone was off . She said she loves me but can't contact me at the moment . Will she contact me ? She has blocked my numbers on her phone of her house . Would she still contact me . It's beeen two months
I'm English…got to say.. if I sent any of them texts to my ex girlfriend…my ex would think I turned into a total weirdo. It may work for Amercans…not for us Brits though…No disrespect Bradley ☺.
My Ex-Boyfriend just unblocked me on WhatS'upp, Without saying a word to me and have been going through my status… Should I reply to him or say something to him? 🤦
Sir how if we broke up already and she had someone already, but we still see each other and communicate and still we sex? Is this good or bad?but i want to get her back again
My bff went out with my bf and his friends for a small lunch and now they're together 😥😥what do i do ?
I’m too single for this
The reason behind our breakup was…suddenly.. She began to hanging out with the older guys and she started drinking and smoking weeds…she lied every time to me but in the past days she never lied to me… Then i caught her red handedly and beat her very badly.. That's the reason… And her last words were… I love you but.. I don't wnna hurt u anymore by lying. and I can't be ur boxing box…..I can't beard u anymore .. But Iam sure that she still has a special feelings for me… Coz I know her very well…… This is our 4th break up… And this time iam hopeless sir😓 that's y I have found you
Plss help me sir… I don't wanna lose her… She is everything to me….. We have been together for 6 good years and now I don't wanna move alone😓
Brand me and girlfriend been break up over 7 months we share a car together and we are working at the same place I want to get her back can you tell me what do please
Shit.. this vid was recommended a few seconds to late 😦.
Bro i had breakup yesterday only ,😥
You are the best
My SO lives with an abuser for the last 8 years. She's extremely emotionally fragile. She thinks everything is her fault in their relationship. " She causes him to become abusive". I was to be the excuse she was giving him to leave her. I agreed to this before I knew he is an abuser. Four months later, after I'd fallen in love with her, I learned about the abuse. Trying to get a woman away from an emotionally and mentally abusive man is next to impossible. Now I have become the bad guy. The most meaningless "wrongs" now, somehow, are far worse than the bruises. I don't know what to do anymore other than keep showing her how much I love her. Does anyone have any advise for me with this situation?
But what if she says shell show the police
Brad's tactics are desperate
Thanks, I'm trying to stop all communication with her. I can wait it him out. Right now he's using the, "I love you bullshit. It's a weapon in his arsenal just to keep her hanging on. It's hard for me though, because I know what's coming. I'm afraid that the next time he puts his hands on her it could be very bad for her.
Plz give me your no sir
Hey Brad, can you please give me some advice. My ex & I broke up after 3 years dating, 6 months engaged. He broke it off with me dec 20th due to a lot of issues the last few months. He’ll tell me things like he doesn’t want to talk to me anymore but then he says just give him time but of course not together. He’s real back and fourth. I’m not sure what to do. Give him space ? His moods are up and down with me.
Hey bro i want my ex bf admit that he made a mistake.. What should i do please help me
What if they are still mad at you?
Instructions unclear, my foot stuck in her ass
Help can I please talk to you via email?
How to text.. ? Because he blocked me in WhatsApp and fb ? He blocked me on 6th of Jan 2019
Nice
My advice is to generate a very very funny naughty joke.
you realy help me
yesterday when I see him I was overcontrol we try to talk but all we talked about is how we break up but when I ask him do you love me? he just say I dont . but he also ask me I saw you with a boy who is he? can you help me brad
Ur damnnn best break up coach i ever seen brad. My ex blocked me on Facebook. Should i use no contact rule to come in contact with her again?
Can you make a video of rebound relationship ? My girlfriens has been woth her ex 3 years, and broker up with him a week after being with me. We have been together in over 2 months and she suddenly did not answer or text as before. She says she feels bad for moving to me too quick and maybe needed time to be happy herself before being happy with me and needed space. She says she loves me and wants to be with me tho, but she only text at night before bed, text like before but her with lower energy, and she sends snaps once or twice a day. It is the 5 og 6 day and we still in contact and I have made it clear that if there is anything she should say it. But I am afraid she is just holding on so I do not go sad or depressed as I told her it happened to me before. What should I do ?
Brad, I broke up with my ex 3 months ago. During that time I haven’t really talked to her that much. 2 weeks ago I told her how I felt. I told her that I missed her and that it was a mistake to break up with her. She said she doesn’t feel the same way anymore and just wants to be friends. She talks to me a bit but recently it’s only like a small conversation each day. I don’t know if flirting will help or not. I gave her space and she just seems real distant now. I don’t know what to do.
Brad :What to do if your ex is writing on the messenger and in the messages on the phone? Do I ignore it until one month goes by? Please help me! 😔😔😔
Please let me know your e mail to talk to you sir.i want my ever loving boyfriend.I’m waiting for him 3months
What shoul I do
There was no contact in these 3 months
I have done 45 days no contact period and already sent 1 text to her about our happy moment, when we went outside for a dateand now it's 7 days done for the same. Now please let me know, what to do as I am now facing confusion to send another message ?
I didnt went through brkup but she has told me to brkup thrice and later she said she was joking…and gets back together with me…..whwt should i do now? …..plz reply
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Dude that is to soon .
You what to text them and tell them what you have been working on to be a better person.
Not what you said to soon
If you just started to talk after nc
She will not want to flirt with you.
You have to start as friends and get to know her again.
I hope this works trying hard to win my ex fiance back it's been 7 months and he's dating & saying he loves him and granted he's falling in love with him
I broke up with my ex like 2 days ago cuz she was forcing me either to do it with her or eat and break up with her and at that day i was sooo hungry i need to eat a sandwich but she said either me doing it with her or the sandwich so i said i will finish it in 5 mins and get in bed with you but she got mad and started tell me that i am sooo bad and i could not hold it and broke up with her
If a person is not receptive to any of this this doesn’t work??? I think you should at least be on consistent regular talking /texting…
Me and my ex are talking but I tried telling him my feelings and nothing works and I try to talk like when we were friends but I’m inpatient lol what am I doing wrong Brad?
I got really hurt by my ex. I actually tried my best to get him back though I was proud sometimes buh it didn’t work. He is now going out with someone and I can’t stop thinking about him what do I do now?
Hey can i have your number or your ig name to have. A serious chat with you .
Hey ….tell us about something that get work in INDIA …
Sir, I'm in NC till now….. It's more than 1month…… Previously he read my status in WA but that also he stopped. So I think it will take more time. He felt I became too needy which he couldn't handle and just broke up through msgs. I was in terrible pain n situation but now your advice has helped me to cope up. However, I desire him to come to me and talk to me on his own. Please help me how can it be possible!! Thank you Sir🙏🙏🙏
I broke up with the guy I dated for two months, I really miss him, I've tried all thus but failed, what can I do
Brad, my ex and me broke up like 2 months ago and she’s dating someone else and I don’t know what to do I miss her😪🤧🤧🤧
He left me because of his family, we are of different castes and he is afraid to go against his family..we broke up 5 months ago and i stopped talking with him few days ago, i don't know what to do..Should i wait?? I want him to come back but no hopes 😑 what should i do??
My situation is as unique as it gets, but it feels like 'Princess Bride' kind of love. I had to sign up for Brad's 1 on 1 coaching.
brad my ex unblocked me after rebound then what i do next tel me
Please help me Brad. Whenever my girl used to come over we used to have sex even when she didnt agreed and she often used to say no but for my sake she agreed n now it has come a moment where cant do this anymore . She is suffering from this dilemma and she opened up about this to me and I asked her sorry and that I would change as it was my fault . She had told me this before also but I didnt listen n she gave me time to correct this but I didnt n now she cant do this anymore and she says she has no option other than break up .she says she doesnt love me more and isnt comfortable with me. Coming over my house reminds her of sex and she said that she doesnt wanted to have sex always but she had to cuz of me. I messed up. I apologized but now she is confused too . That she should trust me again or not . Right now I am giving her the space to forget the negative emotions n working on myself that I shouldn't repeat the mistake again . How can I get her love and respect again. Please help my big brother
Soo… Brad.. do i have to say "Take me back…" after this little thing i just wrote down "Hey, you remember that time when you were shy to talk on the IG call. I was like is she gonna talk lol."
I really do hope I get my ex back from a rebound relationship (A.K.A I'm trying to save her from that loser) 😜😂
Hello Brad, I’m really interested in your program. I’m in a bit of a unique situation and want to ensure your program could be relevant to my situation. I met the woman of my dreams in March 2018. I have been spending months at a time in Hawaii for the last 3 years and I met her at an organic farming class. I brought the biggest organic papaya anybody had ever seen and she asked to come check out my farm. She came to Hawaii to get out of a 9 year marriage and she stayed for about 5 months and came to visit me on my part of the island every weekend. She had to go back to Vermont to get her ex out of her house, finalize the divorce and she planned to move to Hawaii after selling her house. There was a volcano that erupted the day after she left which was about a mile from where I lived and she invited me to Vermont for the summer to get away from the danger. I stayed in Hawaii for 3 months until the volcano became life threatening then I took her up on the offer. Because I wasn’t established in Vermont, didn’t have a network of friends, a job there etc it was difficult for me to integrate and I wasn’t able to give her the space I was in Hawaii and she eventually asked me to go back to Hawaii. Towards the end of my time with her in Vermont, she went to visit her parents in Canada and they were attempting to convince her not to move to Hawaii. She was born in Israel and her mom has a lot of influence on her so she may be wavering. Between the time she left Hawaii and I came to Vermont, we texted almost daily and talked 1-2 times per week. She has initiated contact with me 2x since we’ve been apart this time and it’s been 8-9 months. For obvious reasons, I couldn’t casually meet up with her face to face. I currently live in a community that brings in dozen of gorgeous women every month and I haven’t met a single woman I felt inspired to connect with sexually because my ex is a 12 and I’m not willing to downgrade. I’m wondering what you think your program could do for me in a situation where I couldn’t meet with her face to face and could only Skype. Thanks in advance for your reply!
Hi brad, i broke up with him 1 year and 2 months ago and he has a girlfriend, they are together since last year. Do you think i still have a chance ?
Btw it was a long distance relationship
I have this person iam with him for 3 years until now
But sometimes he make me confuse, sometimes I can't understand his feelings for me
Sometimes we don't communicate like weeks and he is a distance from me
I don't know what I have to do
Should I broke up with him?
Because I don't wanna to be the only person who is trying and communicating with him
In India these things don't work I texted my ex girlfriend and asked how's she doing the reply I got from her is really negative she doesn't wanna receive my text again so in that case what should I resort to?
HEY BRAD CAN U HELP ME? MY GIRLFRIEND BROKE-UP WITH ME BECAUSE OF HER FAMILY THEY CANT ACCEPT ME AS HIS BOYFRIEND I KNOW THAT SHE LOVES ME. MY GIRLFRIEND HAVE A SON ON HER PAST BOYFRIEND AND NOW AT THE AGE OF 5 YEARS OLD . SHE SAID THAT HER FIRST PRIORITY IS HER SON AND SECOND HER FAMILY.. I FEEL SO LONELY. PLS HELP ME. FROM PHILIPPINES
U r hope 😊🔥🙏
I sent my ex a dick pic the second day she started talking to me again… We're still talking and she tells me about her tits. She accidentally showed me her boob on face time. Idk what to do now cause we were long distance.
Do a video about Indian relationships/breakups . It's completely different from the rest of the world
3:27
I did that
She blocked me
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Hi… It's a long distance relationship and she says There's no future for us and she couldn't be a good lover.. Help me get her back
Brad my ex broke up with me last september 9 . After two weeks of begging he told me that he already have a mutual understanding with someone. I still love him and Im wiling to wait. Our pictures that are still on his instagram giving me hope lol. Its been 2 weeks of no contact with him. What can i do to make him back? Oh btw the last message he said was he is willing to listen with all my dramas in life "as a friend" and after that i tried not to chat with him anymore.
Hey Daniel , please tell me how to make her laugh , she is not laughing at my silli jokes. I want her back man.
Hello sir I want to ask u one qustion if my ex talking me in WhatsApp every day but she did not want to come in my life she say so what will I do
It's the viabration of her phone that will turn her on 😄
What if your ex is a short temper 💔
It all depends where she's keeping her phone when she receives the text
Keep in mind y’all these ex scenarios this guy is describing are basically like late 20s, early 30s style relationships. This ain’t gonna work with no college broad. These texts are straight cringe. Just act like you don’t care about her, she’ll come running eventually, if not? Show her on the low how many women you got. Manipulation 101 fellasz
What if we've just broke up for 2weeks and tommorrow is her birthday . Should i great her or should i continue doing a no contact process ?
Thanks so much
Hello Mr.Brad..myself Arpita from India.. I need your help sir..my ex boyfriend broke my heart because he thought that I cheat him and I had an affair with someone else..but that's not true..I am not cheating him and I had no affair.. I love him very much.. Still I love him and crying for him.. When we were in the relationship, many times I tried to clean his thoughts, to remove that thoughts.. But I can't do it..every time I failed.. Last 27th oct he break the relationship just because of his thoughts.. I tried my best to clean up his mind after his discission.. But I am failed.. Still he thoughts wrong..now what can I do? How can I get him back in my life? How can I clean his misunderstanding? Please sir help me.. I really need your help.. Please reply me sir..please suggest me solution sir..please sir🙏😭